Oh dear @Shaz51
Have just read back several pages and cannot believe what your mother has been though.
This in turn being such a shock for you and Mr Shaz.
The doctor patient information scenario sounds dreadful and questionable.
Thank goodness you now know where she is and is also closer.
As for being a nobody. Wash your mouth out with soap! I believe is the old fashioned saying.
Meant warm heartedly; that does not come close in describing the caring; warm-hearted; loving soul we have all come to know and love.
Why do we turn on ourselves when life throws up so many challenges time and time again?
I think most of us do and yet we can jump in and tell others not to.
As everyone has already mentioned; as hard as it is; one day at a time.
Good that you can talk to her on the phone. That might be good to keep that up if able and of course if she wants to. She will be feeling very confused and weary as well as dealing with medication; resettling and possible dementia. She possibly will want to sleep a fair bit.
I hope that talking to her on the phone will reassure you in between visits.
Good that you can talk about all of these challenges on here.
Sophia 💜
